Relationships tend to be extremely fragile.
A wrong word or misconstrued look can shatter a relationship that you’ve built
and maintained for weeks, months or even years – forever ending a seemingly
great partnership.
The blowup may have resulted from pent-up
feelings that you and your spouse or partner ignored until it was too late. One
small mistake or words chosen in anger or without thought, and you reached the
boiling point – hurling you both over the edge. Now, the relationship stands on
the threshold of finality.
Many great relationships have ended because
of a moment of anger, misunderstanding, or hurt feelings. But if you both care
deeply for each other, the relationship doesn’t have to end.
You can work it out (whatever it is) and
put your relationship back on track to make the bond between you stronger than
ever. Working through the pain (and possible anger) that you’re feeling right
now isn’t easy – and it takes complete commitment.
You must mentally turn back the clock and
remember what first attracted you to each other and work from there, rebuilding
the love and compassion that used to be. Whether the breakup just happened or
divorce proceedings are underway, there is hope. You can pull your relationship
from the brink of disaster no matter what caused the split if you’re committed
to learning the basic rules of making up.
cheers,
Bobby
Bobby
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